Hello everyone! Today I’m going to write about high value man. I’m sure that all of you heard about high value man. I’m also sure that the majority of you want to become one of those. How to become a high value man? What does it takes to become one? What I need to do to become one? Let’s start.
Who is a high value man? My definition of the high value man is: High value man is the man who is bold, determined and committed to his goals. He works hard to achieve his dreams and goals. He believes in his abilities and he uses his abilities to accomplish a great things. He is motivated by fear. He knows that fear is good for his personal growth. In general, he is successful in life.
How to become a high value man?
Define your core values
Every man should define his core values. Core values are the things you value the most in your life. You live your life by those values. It’s important to define those values if you want to live a good life. How could someone live a good life if he doesn’t know what he values? It is impossible. You should define what is the most important to you in your life.
Think about what you want in your life. Think about the things which are truly important to you. Write everything. You should make a list of those things. Now, when you have a list, you need to take a good look at that list. You need to consider what are the most important things on that list. Let’s say that you have a list of 20 important things. It would be so much for anyone to have so much core values. You should cut down your list. Everything more than 7 things in the list is too much. When you have only 7 or less things on the list you should consider what is the most important on that list. You should make a priority list. Congratulations, you defined your core values.
Now when you know what’s important in your life, you can raise your value as a man. You said you want to be a high value man but you don’t know how to raise your value as a man? You are at the right place.
How to raise your value as a man?
The fastest way to raise your value as a man is to spend the most of your day engaged in the high value activities. The majority of men will never be a high value man. Why? Because they are spending their life on the unimportant things. The average man spends his life on the video games, on the internet surfing, on the social media, watching TV shows, etc. All of those activities are the low values activities. If you want to be an average man, then that’s ok. Continue to live that life. But if you want to be a high value man, you need to change yourself. You need to be engaged in the high values activities.
Some high value activities are working out, developing yourself as a person, reading non fiction, writing, working on your business, learning a foreign language, etc. I know it’s hard to do those activities for the most of your day, but as I like to say: ‘Hard work pays off’. I know it’s hard to work out after work or after lectures, I know that you don’t have an energy but you need to push yourself. You need to be engaged in those high value activities in order to raise your value as a man. That’s the easiest and the most rewarding way to become a high value man.
How to consider which activities are high value activities? I said it before. It’s different from man to man. Every man have a different goals and dreams in life. You need to figure out what is important to you and what is not. It can vary from man to man but it’s your job to figure it out. If you are writing a blog, which activity would be a high value activity? Writing, reading and researching are high value activities. You should spend the most of your day on those activities to raise your value as a man. If you are a blogger who is writing about self-development and you are spending the most of your day playing video games, you are not engaged in the high value activities. You are wasting your time and you are not raising your value as a man.