Last week I watched the film called American Sniper. I was hesitating about watching this film because I’m really not the fan of the film about army and war. I read some reviews and I decided to give it a try. After watching it, all I want to say is that this film is full of men’s lessons and life lessons. If you haven’t been watching it yet, my warm suggestion is to watch it. After watching it I was stunned and I started to doing some research about the film. I’ve found out that there is a book which is written by Chris Kyle about his life before and his life in the SEALs. I’m currently reading the book and the piece is a true gold. There are a lot of things you can learn from American Sniper. This article will be a long one but it’s worth reading it. Take a sit, make yourself coffee or favourite tea and enjoy.
- Real man has vision and dream
Real man knows what he wants from life. He sets goals for himself and he also has a dream in his life. Dream is something what he wants to achieve in his lifetime. His dream is everything to him and he committed his life to achieving that dream. Do you have a dream in your life? What do you expect from life? What is your ultimate goal in life?
- Real man has define his values
Every man should define his values and should live by those values. You should define those values by yourself. Only one person knows what is important. It’s YOU. It’s up to you to find out what is important to you and when you find out what matters to you, you should live your life by those things. By those values. You should always stay true to your values. What are your values?
- Real man has priorities
Priorities are really important things in life. You should determine your priorities and stick to those priorities. Be true to yourself. Live your life by those priorities. If you don’t have priorities you should write down what is the most important thing in life to you. It could be your career, your family, your friends, education or something else. When you write all important things, consider what is the most important thing. Put that thing first in the list. That is your top priority in life. For other things you should do the same. The result is your priority list.
- Real man does what he likes
Do you love your job right now? If the answer for this question is negative, you should really think about changing your career. It’s not about the money, it’s about happiness. Don’t care how much money you get. It’s not worth if you’re not happy. Imagine yourself go every day on job you don’t like for the rest of your life. It is painful. Don’t stuck there. Find what you truly love to do, find your passion and give yourself in that passion. You will be rewarded by happiness and fulfillment. Here is a really nice quote about the topic. You should take time for yourself and figure out what you want from life. You on your own. Don’t listen to your mom, dad…They want you all the best but YOU are the only person who know what is the best thing for you. It’s within you and you need to decide it for yourself.
“If you say that money is the most important thing, you spend your life completely wasting your time: You will do thing you don’t like to do in order to go on living, that is, in order to go to doing things you don’t like doing.” – Alan Watts
- Real man likes challenge
Real man doesn’t want a boring life. Real man wants a life full of challenges. If something is not a challenge for him, he don’t want to be involved in that thing. Challenge isn’t something easy, it carries some level of uncertainty. That is what a real man wants, uncertainty. Uncertainty isn’t a boring thing, it’s the thing that push us beyond our limits. Real man likes to push their limits. They don’t want to live a boring life. They want to be around people who are better than them because it’s challenge to them. They want to be like them, they want to beat them.
- Real man is a hard worker
Real man works really hard to achieve his dreams. To make their dreams become reality. You can’t achieve your dreams if you don’t work hard. You need to be focused on your mission. You need to be committed to your dream with your life. That’s how you make your dream a reality. Hard work pays off! Do whatever it takes to succeed. You need to push your limits everyday.
- Real man never gives up
No matter how hard is something. No matter how you feel. You should never give up Giving up is for cowards. You are not a coward. You are a real man. When you think you can’t do something, you can do it and you will do it. Because you are the real man who never gives up.
- Real man likes fear
Real man likes fear. Fear is a good thing. It indicates something we hadn’t experienced before. That means that we are growing as a person. We need to embrace fear and move on. We are getting out of our comfort zone. When you feel fear, it’s indicator that you are doing well, that you are doing new things and that you are growing as a person. You are a real man and real man likes fear.
- Real man likes responsibility
Real man likes responsibility. He wants to be responsible. He is responsible for everything he does and he knows that. He doesn’t blame anyone else for their mistakes. He knows that he is the only person who is responsible for his success. (Read this: What Does Success Mean To You? ) Real man takes a full responsibility for his life.
- Real man loves his wife
Real man loves his wife and his family. He is protector of his wife. He knows how to make her feel special. Real man doesn’t abuse his wife in any way. He treats her with the respect she deserves. Do you consider yourself as a real man? Read this: American Sniper Vs 50 Shades Of Grey